What is significant is that kids are able to create and sustain new private
social worlds through the use of messaging and blogging, worlds that are separate from, yet overlapping with, institutions such as family and school. Emerging kids’ cultures encompass, and perhaps predict, new definitions of public and private space that sometimes transcend the boundaries that govern adult life – age and sex, institutional rules, national boundaries, and so forth.
The social world of kids completely baffles me. When my girls were growing up, their social world was the telephone and I never had a weekend that I didn’t have at least two extra kids staying the night. Their social world was more verbal and face to face. Sometimes I think a lot of the problems that kids are having dealing with people is because they can’t relate to people face to face anymore. Everything is done by text or email. Everything is kind of hidden from their families.
Games and gaming. Games are one of children’s earliest experiences with
technology, and may be shaping kids’ learning habits and technological fluencies; this is the subject of profound debate in the research literature.
I’m really a fan of the gaming industry. The people that create these games are geniuses. The creativity and the skill necessary to do this, wows me. I don’t like that parents aren’t more selective in the types of games that they allow their children to play. The really violent games should not be for kids but that’s the parent’s duty to control. Kids are so quick to learn how to do these games and that is amazing. I still can’t use the DVD player.
Kids economies determine the scale and scope of their social networks. Until
they are old enough to own a mobile phone, children use the Internet to develop
peer networks -- using lists, chat rooms, web based social software, and email --
because it is free. These communication strategies link kids to peers, but also to
parents; the term ‘mobile parenting’ is now used to describe parenting of young
children from afar by mobile phone. Teenagers are more likely to be provided
mobile phones by their parents for the purpose of coordination or safety, but in
fact use text messaging to build distinctive new private spaces and cultures.
When my oldest daughter turned 16, I purchased my first mobile phone. Of course, at that time it was a bag phone that plugged into the cigarette lighter of the car and sat on the center console. I wanted to make sure she could get in touch with me if she needed to and that I could reach her. I would not have referred to it as mobile parenting but more of a parenting safety net. Now that mobile phones are becoming much more affordable, I think most kids do have one and at much younger ages that what they used to. It certainly has become a way for parents to keep track of their children.
http://www.marcprensky.com/writing/Prensky%20-%20What%20Kids%20Learn%20Thats%20POSITIVE%20From%20Playing%20Video%20Games.pdfhttp://pediatrics.about.com/od/otherparentingissues/i/kids_cellphones_2.htm